Monday, March 22, 2010

The most difficult place to live for expats??

I read this article just now and have the permission to share.  Unsurprisingly, UAE is rated as the most difficult place to get adjusted to, again, among many other sources of ratings.  Read this:
Expat Exchange - A Rewarding But Challenging Life - Expats

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Although I was pleased with my accomodation with its location, size, etc., I had a nightmare setting up the place.  Everything was so difficult.  By the end of the day, I had to deal with both work stress and putting a life together in the Arab world.  Let me give you one little example. 

This was what part of my living room looked like before the windows were covered.  Yes I literally would look like living in a fishbowl without curtains.  My neighbor Ali, a rich Indian young man took me to the near-by Indian district and I ordered some blinds, or rollers.  Two guys came by to take the measurements and promised things would be smooth as silk and I should make the full payment.  Luckily I did not because my nightmare has just started.  The night the workers came to install, I skipped a get-together inviation to stay home for them.  They came, of course three hours late.  Quoting my friend Pam's wisdom, "well in this country, if they ever show up, you are lucky.  If not, it is normal.  Don't sweat over it."  I told myself to breathe deeply while waiting.  They came by finally with all the tools laid out in my living room and said, "there is a big problem."  Then they went on to speak Hindu and ingnored my questions such as "what is the problem?" "Can you install today?"  They did not understand what I said obviously.

So they started drilling holes on the wall and I started praying.  Then these guys could not fit the pieces to the windows.  I started to get nervous.  It was 10 p.m. and none of the rollers were up.  So I got up from the couch, running around trying to help them.  Finally they got two pieces up in one of my rooms, but somehow they left this huge space between two blinds.  I asked them to make the space go away and they said, "no, it is impossible."  What did they mean by impossible!  I did not spend all this money on a lousy job like this.  I became angry and called one of the guys who measured my windows. 
"Please, you have to come by now.  I cannot communicate with these gentlemen.  They won't do what I have ask them to do."  I raised my voice.
"We can't go over now.  We are in a different city."
"You have to talk to them now because it is mess here." I insisted, and I started crying.

No they would not want to come but they knew I was crying.  I had never fret over little things like this anywhere in the world.  But of course this was UAE and things were supposed to be difficult.  I called my friend Ali and asked him to come help me.  It was during Ramadan and Ali was having Iftar dinner with his family.  He came to my rescue and translated for me to those guys.  I was sobbing and thanking Ali and I knew he felt really sorry for me.

So finally these men pulled over the rods to make them closer.  Then the doorbell rang and these two other Indian guys who took the measurements showed up.  I thought they said they were two hours away but whatever happened, they decided to come check it out.  Then my friend Allan called to check on me and decided to leave his party early to help me out.  So Allan, a tall Scottish man speaking with his firm British tone straightened things out for me.  He said exactly the same thing that I wanted to say but he was a male and I was a woman.  Having a man in the house made a huge difference, in this part of the world. 

What was I doing in these chaos?  Sobbing, blowing my nose and wiping my tears away on the couch.  My mind went very blank after Allan came.  I let him took over my house and the only thing I heard from then on was Allan saying "see how the lady is upset?" 

They did not finish the installation that night.  They had to come back for two more nights after that, and I could not take that anymore.  Allan was kind enough to sit in my house supervising them while I went out walking in the mall.  On the last night of installation I came home to relieve Allan as it was very late.  Allan dragged me to the kitchen and said, "Lori, let these men to their jobs, okay?" Somehow he was afraid that I might be too demanding (perhaps he thought I had been) and the installation would not be completed.  I nodded and compromised.  I surrendered to the U.A.E. 

Allan gave several bottles of beer to these men and they left after they finished the job.  I did not know if it was legal because if these guys were Muslims, they were not supposed to drink alcohol, especially during Ramadan.  I crossed my fingers that we would not get arrested.

So was I pleased with the job they did?  What do you think?  There was a big space in between two blinds facing the elevator where everyone could see me running around in my living room.  My friend Pam decided to lend me her beloved screens to shield me off people's wandering eyes. 


  1. MW, I feel for you. Jen

  2. Hi Lori,

    It has been a long while since you last posted. Hope things are going a little more smoothly than they were when you had your blinds put up.

  3. فى الخدمة شركة تنظيف منازل
    تقدم لك خدمة تنظيف منازل بالرياض وبكافة المدن السعودية بأفضل الأساليب المتخصصة فى التنظيف على مستوى العالم من خلال فريق مدرب وذو خبرة فى التعامل مع المساحات المختلفة وكافة أنواع الأثاث و الأرضيات مستخدما أدوات عالية الجودة وفعالة فى تنظيف المنازل بشكل كامل

    فى الخدمة تقدم لكم أفضل خدمة نظافة بالرياض :-
    شركة فى الخدمة شركة نظافة بالرياض
    من أفضل الشركات في هذا المجال لأننا متميزون ومنفردون في جودة الخدمة التي نقدمها لنوفر لك عزيزي العميل مستوي النظافة والجودة التي تفوق توقعاتك لأننا نهتم بأدق التفاصيل و أول همنا هو خدمة العمل وكسب ثقة العميل , كما ان لدينا طاقم عمل متكامل مدرب علي أعلي درجة من الأحترافية والأتقان في مجال التنظيف كما تنفرد شركتنا بأستخدام مجموعة أدوات ومعدات وتقنيات التنظيف حيث التطور والتقدم في أستخدام التكنولوجيا الحديثة كما أننا نستخدم مجموعة مميزة وفعالة من المواد المنظفه التي تساعد في عمليات التنظيف .
    فى الخدمة شركة تسليك مجارى بالرياض
    و بكافة المدن السعودية بأفضل الأساليب المتخصصة فى تسليك المجارى والتخلص من المواد المترسبة فى مواسير الصرف الصحى مستوى العالم من خلال فريق مدرب وذو خبرة فى التعامل مع كافة أنواع الإنسدادات فى مواسير المجارى

  4. It has been a long while since you last posted. Hope things are going a little more smoothly than they were when you had your blinds put up.



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